VANDERPUMP RULES: A LOVE STORY

It's no secret, I love my housewives! I have a fondness for Jersey and Beverly Hills. My two fave housewives being Lisa Vanderpump and Melissa Gorga. When Lisa was given her own spin off for her restaurant SUR, I had to have in on it.

Jax and Stassi

Obviously, if you've seen the show, the main premise of it is the tragic love story between Stassi and Jax. Both beyond ridiculously good looking people in the midst of a lovers quarrel. They dated for two years, and lived together as well. Jax is being accused by Stassi of cheating on her in Vegas and subsequently getting another woman pregnant. Jax denies this claim to everyone at SUR, and this leaves Stassi on the outs with everyone at SUR.

Jax then begins dating former meth addict Laura-Leigh. Anyone else see the red flags? Anyway, their romance is hot and heaving. The two of them are always having sex multiple times a day in public places. Jax tries to make it clear to Laura-Leigh that they are just having fun. It comes to light that Jax may only be using Laura-Leigh as a rebound, which HELLO SHE IS! Laura-Leigh destroyed her relationship with Stassi for Jax, who was using her as a rebound. Laura-Leigh is a hands down a hot mess. She is that girl that all ex girlfriends cannot stand. No wonder Stassi blew up on her.

Anyway, Jax tries to win Stassi back saying over and over how much he loves her and how she is the one for him. They begin to work on things when Jax decides to be honest and drop the biggest bomb. He finally admits that he had sex with a girl in Vegas and got her pregnant. Stassi burst into tears, finally being vindicated, and tells him she never ever wants to speak to him or talk to him ever again. Jax also admits the truth to his friends, and they are all annoyed and disappointed that he lied to them.

Jax continuously tries to convince Stassi he is changed and that she is the one. I think it's a load of horse shit. If he really wanted to be with her he would have never cheated or lied in the first place. He made her look like a fool and caused her unnecessary heartache. A man like Jax won't ever change, and if Stassi went back to him she would be in the same cycle over and over again. Jax is the kind of man who convinces himself he loves someone so deeply and that they are the greatest thing since sliced bread, but if another woman came along, its dunzo. He would and will say anything in order to convince himself and someone else how he truly feels. If he can lie about getting a woman pregnant, he can pretty much lie about anything.

What makes me beyond happy about all of this is that Stassi seems to not give in. Yes, she considered being back with him until he confessed the truth. Also, she did admittedly hook up with him after the fact. Clearly, she still loves him, but he really isn't anyone to love. He is selfish and if it came down to being faithful to her and getting what he wants, he'd forget she even existed.

Men like Jax need to be shown to every teenage girl in the world so that they know what to stay away from. Give him a chance, but when it happens DO NOT RUN BACK TO HIM. Yes, some of us girls, including myself, have to make a couple mistakes a few times to really be sure it isn't worth going back to. We all do it, it's insanity, but it happens. All we can do is make an example of a man like Jax and warn other women to not bother with men who play such petty games. It should be something we should be able to avoid, but we will all have at least one Jax in our lives before the age of 21. Just remember, if you run into a Jax, be a Stassi. Meaning, when you find yourself with a liar and a cheater, leave him and don't bother looking back because you're not going that way.